A One-Day Men's Retreat  ·  Norwich, 11 October 2026

Embodying the
Four Male
Archetypes

The King  ·  The Warrior  ·  The Magician  ·  The Lover

A full day of deep inner work — meditation, breathwork, movement, and ritual — to discover, feel, and embody the four essential energies of mature masculinity.

Date 11 October 2026
Time 07:30 — 20:30
Venue Lions' Den City, Norwich
Format 12 Men Only
Limited to 12 men — register your interest and Ed will be in touch

Most Men Know What They Should Be.
Few Know Who They Already Are.

Somewhere along the way, most men were handed a narrow script for what it means to be a man. Work hard. Stay strong. Don't show weakness. Keep moving. And for a while, that works.

But there's a deeper map. One that's been understood across cultures and centuries — and largely lost in modern life. It describes four fundamental energies that live inside every man: the King, the Warrior, the Magician, and the Lover.

When these energies are underdeveloped, suppressed, or out of balance, men feel it. In their relationships. In their leadership. In their bodies. In the quiet moments when they're alone with themselves.

"This isn't a workshop about ideas. It's a day of embodied experience — you won't just learn about these archetypes. You'll feel them."

Using breathwork, meditation, movement, visualisation, and journaling — grounded in 15 years of work in elite sport and men's development — this retreat gives you a full day to go inward, go deep, and come back a more embodied man .

The Four Archetypes
You Will Embody

Archetype 01

The King

Order · Vision · Sovereignty

The energy of clarity, calm authority, and responsibility. The King leads not through force but through presence. He holds space for others and governs his own inner kingdom first. Without this energy, men default to tyranny or abdication.

Archetype 02

The Warrior

Discipline · Courage · Commitment

The energy of focused action, boundary-setting, and relentless dedication to a cause worth fighting for. The Warrior without direction becomes destructive. Channelled well, he is the part of you that shows up even when it's hard.

Archetype 03

The Magician

Awareness · Wisdom · Transformation

The energy of deep knowing, inner sight, and the ability to hold complexity without collapsing into it. The Magician is the observer — the part of you that can step back, see the bigger picture, and initiate change from the inside out.

Archetype 04

The Lover

Feeling · Connection · Aliveness

The energy of full presence, sensory aliveness, and deep connection — to yourself, to others, and to life. The Lover is the part most often suppressed in high-performing men. He is not weakness. He is the source of meaning, creativity, and joy.

How the Day Unfolds

07:30

Registration

Arrive, settle in, and meet the group. The day begins with space, not rush.

08:00

Welcome

An opening to mark the transition. We set the container for the day — what we're here for, and how we'll work together.

08:30

Morning Meditation

A guided meditation to bring you fully into your body and into the present. The foundation for everything that follows.

09:15

The Warrior Archetype

We enter the first archetype through guided practice — breathwork, movement, and visualisation to awaken the energy of focused courage, discipline, and commitment.

10:30

Sacred Pause & Journaling

Time to let the work land. Prompted journaling to integrate what surfaced during the Warrior session.

10:45

Refreshments & Bio Break

Rest, refuel, and breathe before we continue.

11:00

The Lover Archetype

The energy most men have suppressed the longest. A guided exploration of full presence, aliveness, and deep connection — with yourself and with life.

12:15

Sacred Pause & Journaling

Integration time after the Lover session — often the most unexpected and powerful of the day.

12:30

Lunch

A proper break. Nourishment for the body. Time to connect, decompress, and be.

13:30

Movement & Breathwork

A somatic reset after lunch — movement and breath to re-energise the body and prepare for the afternoon's deeper work.

14:00

The Magician Archetype

The energy of inner knowing, deep awareness, and the capacity to hold complexity without collapsing. Guided meditation, inner journeying, and group work.

15:15

Sacred Pause & Journaling

Space to sit with what the Magician revealed. Often where the most unexpected insights arrive.

15:30

Refreshments & Bio Break

A final reset before the last archetype of the day.

15:45

The King Archetype

The capstone of the day. The energy of sovereign authority, clarity, and responsibility. We bring the four archetypes together — how they live in you, and how you lead from here.

17:00

Sacred Pause & Journaling

A longer integration space after the King session — and after carrying all four archetypes through the day.

17:30

Integration Meditation

A final guided meditation to bring all four energies together inside you. This is the closing ceremony of the inner work.

18:15

Refreshments & Private Sauna

The group moves into a private sauna session. Heat, rest, and silence. One of the oldest forms of masculine ritual — the perfect close to a day of deep work.

19:30

Closing Group Dinner

We finish together around the table. A shared meal, reflection on the day, and the beginning of something that continues long after you leave.

Everything You Need
For the Day

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Full Day Facilitation

13 hours of guided retreat with Ed Barry from arrival to closing.

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Meditation & Breathwork

Multiple guided sessions across the day — immersive and embodied.

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Movement & Somatic Work

Embodiment practices designed to bring the archetypes into the body, not just the mind.

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Visualisations & Journaling

Guided inner journeys and structured journaling to deepen the integration.

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Refreshments, Lunch & Dinner

Mid-morning and mid-afternoon refreshments, a sit-down lunch, and a closing group dinner. Please eat something small before you arrive.

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Private Group Sauna

An exclusive sauna session for the retreat group to close the day.

This Retreat Is for You If —

You feel like you're performing a version of yourself rather than being yourself

You're navigating a transition — career, identity, relationships — and want deeper ground to stand on

You've achieved a lot on the outside and want more connection on the inside

You're an athlete or high-performer who wants the mental and emotional edge to match your physical one

You want to show up better — as a leader, a partner, a father, a man

You're curious about men's work and ready to experience it — not just think about it

15 Years
Elite
Sport

Ed Barry

I'm an osteopath and injury rehabilitation specialist with 15 years working inside elite sport. I've spent that time in the environments where performance, pressure, and identity collide — and where the inner life of a man is often the last thing anyone talks about.

Now I work in private practice, consulting elite athletes, teaching meditation and breathwork, holding men's circles, and coaching men through the transitions that matter most. I work with integrating the body, the mind, and the soul — a holistic approach to becoming whole .

This retreat brings a wealth of experience into one day.

Osteopath 15 Yrs Elite Sport Breathwork Meditation Teacher Men's Circle Facilitator

One Day.
Four Archetypes.
A Different Man Leaves.

Spaces are limited to keep the group intimate. If this is calling you, don't wait.

Limited to 12 men — Ed will be in touch personally